Chapter Twenty-nine

Summary

• Alex, the character in the chapter, is bisexual, which raises some questions and considerations for the narrator who is dating another white man after experiencing heartbreak.
• The narrator is concerned about the implications of dating a bisexual man, such as the possibility of having to compete with both men and women for his attention.
• They search online forums for opinions on dating bisexual men and receive mixed responses, highlighting the importance of monogamy over sexual orientation.
• The narrator calls their friend Shu, who is a lesbian, asking why she isn't bisexual and discussing the perceived benefits of being a woman.
• The narrator prepares for a date with Alex, opting for a simple outfit, and feels nervous but excited to meet him.
• Alex and the narrator meet at a Scandinavian-style coffee shop, and Alex impresses the narrator by remembering their preference for brownies.
• The conversation flows easily between Alex and the narrator, with Alex tactfully addressing the topic of his bisexuality and the stigmas he faces in dating.
• Alex explains the challenges of being bisexual and the misconceptions others often have, such as the idea of "bi-erasure."
• The narrator expresses empathy for the difficult experiences both may have in the world of online dating due to being a bisexual man and a Black woman respectively.
• After confirming that his bisexuality isn't a problem for her, they share a pleasant kiss before parting ways.
• The chapter ends with the narrator feeling positive about the date, despite the initial hesitations about Alex's sexuality and their own non-existent barbecue plans.